• Jo Pavezi md lg en
    Jo Pavezi md lg en
    Jo Pavezi

    Psychologist, Executive Coach, Psychotherapist

  • Convide seu inimigo para um café md lg en
    Convide seu inimigo para um café md lg en
    Invite your enemy for some coffee

    Dealing with attachments that lead to dysfunctional conflicts

  • Jo Pavezi md lg en
    Jo Pavezi md lg en
    Jo Pavezi

    Psychologist, Executive Coach, Psychotherapist

  • Convide seu inimigo para um café md lg en
    Convide seu inimigo para um café md lg en
    Invite your enemy for some coffee

    Dealing with attachments that lead to dysfunctional conflicts

  • Jo Pavezi sm xs en
    Jo Pavezi sm xs en
    Jo Pavezi

    Psychologist, Executive Coach, Psychotherapist

  • Convide seu inimigo para um café sm xs en
    Convide seu inimigo para um café sm xs en
    Invite your enemy for some coffee

    Dealing with attachments that lead to dysfunctional conflicts

21. Full achievement: going back home

Dealing with life is to accept its fluidity, looking for promptness to deal with events as they come.

We are evolving when we face situations with lightness, when we can laugh at mistakes we make, when we are nicer with ourselves. We evolve when we authorise ourselves to be more like children and less like grownups all the time. We can see things improving when we have the guts to face our silence and just be with ourselves at the right measure.

We also notice that we get healthier when we ask for help and when we are fragile, we don’t need to wear masks and we can be honest with our difficulties. We mature when we put aside the “superhero cape” that followed us for a long time and which put us into trouble every time we tried to spare, save, avoid, protect instead of letting things to reveal themselves to whom were forward to.

Full achievement is “to go back home”.

21. Full achievement: going back home

Dealing with life is to accept its fluidity, looking for promptness to deal with events as they come.

We are evolving when we face situations with lightness, when we can laugh at mistakes we make, when we are nicer with ourselves. We evolve when we authorise ourselves to be more like children and less like grownups all the time. We can see things improving when we have the guts to face our silence and just be with ourselves at the right measure.

We also notice that we get healthier when we ask for help and when we are fragile, we don’t need to wear masks and we can be honest with our difficulties. We mature when we put aside the “superhero cape” that followed us for a long time and which put us into trouble every time we tried to spare, save, avoid, protect instead of letting things to reveal themselves to whom were forward to.

Full achievement is “to go back home”.

In the book ‘Invite your enemy for some coffee, Jo Pavezi invites you to think about relational conflicts and seek ways to detach ideas and concepts that lead to them.

Are you living a relational conflict with your staff, or in your personal life, and want a way to reflect on it? Choose a card and find a tip that can help you.

Learn more about Jo Pavezi's work in interviews, videos and reports of her experiences in Brazil and in the world helping people to confront their conflicts.

In the book ‘Invite your enemy for some coffee, Jo Pavezi invites you to think about relational conflicts and seek ways to detach ideas and concepts that lead to them.

Are you living a relational conflict with your staff, or in your personal life, and want a way to reflect on it? Choose a card and find a tip that can help you.

Learn more about Jo Pavezi's work in interviews, videos and reports of her experiences in Brazil and in the world helping people to confront their conflicts.

In the book ‘Invite your enemy for some coffee, Jo Pavezi invites you to think about relational conflicts and seek ways to detach ideas and concepts that lead to them.

Are you living a relational conflict with your staff, or in your personal life, and want a way to reflect on it? Choose a card and find a tip that can help you.

Learn more about Jo Pavezi's work in interviews, videos and reports of her experiences in Brazil and in the world helping people to confront their conflicts.